My first time was VERY VERY romantic, not at all like alot of yours. My boyfreind of 8 months, jeremy, was at my house and we were watching tv and cuddling. He looked like he wanted to say something to me, so i called him on it, he said he wanted to ask me something but was afraid but if I gave him paper and a pen he'd write it down, so I did and he did. he gave me a note that read: mercedes, I love you with all of my heart, and i know you are the one. I want my first time to be with you, will you make love to me? well, i almost cried, he was so sweet! i took his hand and lead him into my room, i lit 9 candles he dimmed the lights, we wanted this to be romantic, not sick and twisted like all the stuff I read here. I removed my clothes, so did he. Ilay on my bed and oulled the covers over me, he put a condom on his penis and joined me. he looked into my eyes and whispered:"make love to me" and I did. as November rain played in the background, he held me so close and kissed me while he oushed his penis into me.